Hai Priaku, Menikahlah Denganku...

Dua hari yang lalu, kegiatan pagi gue mengurus Ayodya sedikit terhenti dengan masuknya sebuah SMS ke HP gue. Setelah dilihat, ternyata dari seorang teman -sebut saja mawar, bukan nama sebenarnya- yang akhir-akhir ini memang sedang dalam penantian sebuah keputusan. Inti isi pesannya kira-kira begini:

"...Put, akhirnya dia ngelepas gue..."

Hmm, kadang-kadang cinta emang susah dimengerti ya. Sekilas melihat  mereka, gue pikir mereka bakal "lanjut" tapi ternyata tidak. Inti masalahnya sih standar: masalah kecocokkan, nyambung atau ga nyambung, yang berujung pada masalah sreg atau ga sreg.. Tapiii, renggangnya hubungan mereka dipicu oleh satu point yang memang rada kontroversial dari jaman dulu sampai sekarang: Pihak wanita mulai mempertanyakan hubungan ke tahap selanjutnya.

Well, ini sebenernya urusan dan masalah mereka, tapi ada sedikit pelajaran yang bisa diambil dari kejadian mawar dan pacarnya, satu point yang penting dan sangat prinsip menurut gue: Do not ever ask your man for a marriage! Let him do it for you! It's about men's pride and women's esteem.

Hmm, kasus per kasus emang ga bisa disamain sih, yang mengatasnamakan keseriusan, deadline, de-el-el, tapi menurut gue -jika memungkinkan- usahakanlah tidak memulai pembicaraan ke arah sana.

Balik lagi ke kasus mawar yang lagi patah hati (hehe, gue yakin seyakin-yakinnya lu ga bakal baca blog ini), ada pesen dari usher:

If love was a bird then we wouldn't have wings
If love was a sky, we'd be blue
If love was a choir, you and I could never sing
Cause love isn't for me and you

If love was an Oscar, you and I could never win
Cause we can never act out our parts
If love is the Bible, then we are lost in sin
Because its not in our hearts

So why don't you go your way, and I'll go mine
Live your life, and I'll live mine
Baby you'll do well, and I'll be fine
Cause we're better off, separated

If love was a fire then we have lost the spark
Love never felt so cold
If love was a light then we're lost in the dark
Left with no one to hold

If love was a sport, we're not on the same team
You and I are destined to lose
If love was an ocean then we are just a stream
Cause love isn't for me and you

Girl I know we had some good times
It's sad but now we gotta say goodbye
Girl you know I love you, I can't deny
I can't say we didn't try to make it work for you and I
I know it hurts so much but it's best for us
Somewhere along this windy road we lost the trust
So I'll walk away so you don't have to see me cry
It's killing me so, why don't you go

Comments

[EvA'E]

Put,, btw lagu Usher ini soundtrack-nya gw juga waktu putus ma Aqsha, hehehehehe,,

"Somewhere along this windy road we lost the trust"

Hehehhe,, jadi inget jaman dulu deh,, :)

[Djayus]

ada soundtracknya ya Va.. wich both of U can be together... (mode ngarep on).. he2...